WOLSEY — “It was April 10, in 2015,” said Kristi Neuharth. “I remember it was a Friday and I was at work when I got the call.”
Neuharth’s call was to receive the results of testing that had been completed at Sanford Hospital in Sioux Falls. The diagnosis was that she had breast cancer, it was Stage 3 and she would need to begin treatment immediately. “I must have shut down for a second,” she recalls now, “because my boss at M-O Federal Credit Union came into the conference room where I had taken the call, as she heard my voice change when I got the report. I don’t remember her coming in.
“It was like my life had come crashing down around me.”
April 10, 2015 was her low point, but just as it has taken hard work and perseverance to climb out of that hole, how she got there is just as much about persevering to find the truth. This is a story about believing in yourself, what your body is trying to tell you and the search for the correct answer.
It starts about two years earlier than her call.
It was then that she first felt a mass, a lump, on the lower portion of her right breast. Neuharth said that she had gotten regular mammograms as part of her employee insurance wellness exam and that she had done “frequent, but not what you would call regular” self-examinations. Finding the lump prompted a call to Huron Regional Medical Center for a mammogram. “I was so proud of myself,” she said. “I was being proactive and getting the test scheduled.”
“A few days later, my primary care person called and said that my mammogram needed to be checked into further,” Neuharth said. After discussing what to do next with her husband, Larry, she called back and asked to be referred to someone in Sioux Falls.
“I was told, ‘We refer you to a local prominent surgeon in Huron, or you are on your own.’” Neuharth said she wasn’t wild about the idea, as there was a prior family instance with the referred surgeon. “But I thought ‘OK, I’ll get it checked here. If it’s nothing, no problem. If they find something, I’ll head to Sioux Falls.” But, as it turns out there was a third scenario to the story.
“I went to see the surgeon, who said in their opinion it was nothing,” Neuharth said, “nothing but fibroid tissue.” But the surgeon decided to draw fluid from the lump for testing that day. Neuharth noted that the procedure was done by “feel, rather than with ultrasound.” Fluid was drawn and tested. “I was told it was nothing” she said. “I thought ‘Great! Nothing to worry about.’”
But there was a nagging thought in the back of her mind. “I knew it was something.”
A year later, it was time for another mammogram. The same surgeon looked at the mammogram and told Neuharth that nothing had changed.
“But I knew the lump was still there and was getting bigger all the time,” she said, “but, like most women, I believed what my doctor was telling me, without getting another opinion. Which, as it turns out, was a near fatal error.”
That was the third scenario. Being told there is nothing when, in fact, there was a pretty serious something taking place.
A year later, it is April of 2015 and Neuharth said she had constant pain radiating from the underside of her breast. “It was keeping me up at night with such excruciating pain,” she said, “so I just took it upon myself to call and make an appointment at Sanford in Sioux Falls, to come down to one of their satellite clinics on a weekend to get a basic mammogram.”
She said that the person scheduling the appointment asked some questions to get things set up, and after learning the amount of discomfort Neuharth was in, suggested that perhaps she would be better off seeing her primary doctor, as it sounded as if more than a regular mammogram may be needed.
“By this time I had started seeing Dr. (Erica) Gillette at the Huron Clinic,” Neuharth said. “My appointment with her was on April 2.” Neuharth said that Dr. Gillette took one look at her breast and said that she was likely a very sick woman, and immediately set her up for a 3-D mammogram and ultrasound at Sanford for the following week, on April 8.
“During the ultrasound,” Neuharth said, “the technicians took many biopsies. But I still believed it was nothing - I had been told for two years that was the case. There was some discharge from the breast, and I thought it was some sort of infection.”
Then came the call.
“I was numb,” Neuharth said, as her eyes pooled with emotion. “I was only 53 - actually not even 53 for a couple months yet. The youngest of our three children was graduating from technical school and I had two grandchildren who I wanted to see grow up. It knocked me for a loop.”
Breast Cancer Signs and Symptoms
From The American Cancer Society
Knowing how your breasts normally look and feel is an important part of breast health. Finding breast cancer as early as possible gives you a better chance of successful treatment. But knowing what to look for does not take the place of having regular mammograms and other screening tests. Screening tests can help find breast cancer in its early stages, before any symptoms appear.
The most common symptom of breast cancer is a new lump or mass. A painless, hard mass that has irregular edges is more likely to be cancer, but breast cancers can be tender, soft, or rounded. They can even be painful. For this reason, it is important to have any new breast mass, lump, or breast change checked by a health care professional experienced in diagnosing breast diseases.
Other possible symptoms of breast cancer include:
• Swelling of all or part of a breast (even if no distinct lump is felt)
• Skin irritation or dimpling (sometimes looking like an orange peel)
• Breast or nipple pain
• Nipple retraction (turning inward)
• Redness, scaliness, or thickening of the nipple or breast skin
• Nipple discharge (other than breast milk)
Sometimes a breast cancer can spread to lymph nodes under the arm or around the collar bone and cause a lump or swelling there, even before the original tumor in the breast is large enough to be felt. Swollen lymph nodes should also be checked by a health care provider.
Although any of these symptoms can be caused by things other than breast cancer, if you have them, they should be reported to a health care professional so that the cause can be found.